Today on The Servant Leadership Podcast, we’re joined by Alan Barnhart—an industrial CEO whose life and business model turn conventional success upside down. Alan leads Barnhart Crane & Rigging, a company with over 60 branches and over twenty-five hundred employees. What makes his story remarkable isn’t just the scale of the business—it’s the conviction behind how they run it. From the very beginning, Alan and his brother committed their company and its profits to God. They capped their lifestyles and have reinvested hundreds of millions of dollars into Kingdom work around the world—all while building one of the most respected names in heavy industry. In this episode, Alan shares how biblical stewardship has guided every major decision—and how stewarding their ownership has unlocked great purpose and legacy. He also unpacks how joy fuels their giving, and how stewardship and servant leadership shape everything from family rhythms to executive strategy. Whether you’re a business leader, entrepreneur, or just someone wrestling with how faith intersects with work and wealth, this episode will challenge your thinking and inspire you to lead differently.
Alan Barnhart
Alan Barnhart's Intro
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Today on the Servant Leadership Podcast,
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we're joined by Alan Barnhart, an
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industrial CEO whose life and business
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model turn conventional success upside
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down. Alan leads Barnhart Crane and
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Rigging, a company with over 60 branches
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and over 2500 employees. What makes his
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story remarkable isn't just the scale of
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the business, it's the conviction behind
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how they run it. From the very
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beginning, Allan and his brother
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committed their company and its profits
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to God. They kept their lifestyles and
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have reinvested hundreds of millions of
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dollars into kingdom work around the
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world, all while building one of the
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most respected names in heavy industry.
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In this episode, Allan shares how
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biblical stewardship has guided every
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major decision and how stewarding their
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ownership has unlocked great purpose and
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legacy. He also unpacks how joy fuels
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their giving and how stewardship and
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servant leadership shape everything from
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family rhythms to executive strategy.
Welcome Alan Barnhart
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Alan, thank you for joining us on the
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servant leadership podcast. Oh, it's my
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pleasure. Thank you. I am so excited
Alan Explains Barnhart Crane and Rigging
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because you've been such an inspiration
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to me personally and in our business,
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which is a funny thing to say given what
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you do professionally. Could you explain
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Burnhart Crane and Rigging and what all
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you do? Sure. We are an industrial
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contractor. We pick up and move heavy
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stuff basically. So we have a fleet of
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cranes and and trucks and specialty
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rigging equipment and a bunch of
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engineers that try to figure out better
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ways of moving stuff. Um stuff you would
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have seen. We put up a lot of wind
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turbines and do a lot of maintenance on
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wind turbines. We do a lot of work in
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the mining industry, oil refineries. um
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mainly heavy industry has needs for our
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services and we haul heavy stuff on the
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highway and we also have a bunch of
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equipment to lift and move and slide
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things in in plants. Talk a little bit
The Size of Barnhart Crane and Rigging
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about the scale just so people
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understand how big Barnhart is. Sure.
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Yeah, we're kind of a medium-sized
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company. We have about 60 branches
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around the US and in Western Canada. We
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have about 2500 people. Um and so we uh
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these branches are relatively small
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operations with anywhere from 20 to 50
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maybe 100 people in one. Um and uh we're
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scattered pretty much across the US. So
The Journey of Barnhart Crane and Rigging
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you've been there since the beginning.
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Talk about how it started with your
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family and a little bit of the journey
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to now. Sure. My mom and dad started the
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business in 1986, excuse me, 1969 with a
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pickup truck and a ladder and a welding
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machine and they ran the business for 17
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years. It was a our international
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corporate headquarters was two bedrooms
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at the home I grew up in. It was a very
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mom and pop business. We had about 10
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employees and um and that's the way my
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parents wanted it. And uh so they they
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ran it for 17 years. And then in 1986,
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my brother and I had gotten out of
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college and started working for the
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business full-time. We had worked every
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summer in high school. And heck, we
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started when we were 12 years old. But
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um we started working full-time. And a
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couple years later, my folks decided to
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leave the business and get on a
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sailboat. They bought a sailboat and
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sailed around the world. And so they
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were gone for years doing that. And uh
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my brother and I started a another
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company in '86, but it was basically
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continuing what they were doing with
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with about eight grains and and uh maybe
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10 people. Um we we got started. Wow. So
Bold Decisions About Money
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you made some bold decisions early on
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about how you were going to think about
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money and if the company succeeded. Can
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you talk to us about your journey of
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even how this came up and talk a little
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bit about how it's structured? Sure.
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Yeah. I uh I embraced the Christian
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faith when I was in high school. I grew
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a lot in my faith in college. Came out
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of college um convinced that that uh the
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Christian message was the ultimate
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reality and that I needed to u figure
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out how I could serve God. Um felt that
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God had gifted me more in the area of
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business and engineering than than being
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a pastor or something like that. And so,
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but I wanted to be using my skills and
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my gifts full-time to serve God. Read
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through the Bible to see what it had to
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say about money. Said a lot. Bible was
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full of uh messages about money,
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including a lot of warnings. And so,
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from that message, we landed on two
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things as my brother and I were starting
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our business. The first was the concept
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of stewardship that I'm not an owner.
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I'm a steward of everything I have. I'm
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not an owner with rights. I'm a steward
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with responses, excuse me, with
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responsibilities. And and the second
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thing was the danger of wealth. Um and
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so we put a safeguard in our life um to
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to protect ourselves against the dangers
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of wealth. And basically we said we're
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going to live a simple lifestyle um for
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the rest of our lives. And if God
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chooses to prosper our business, we're
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not going to see that as a call to ramp
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up our lifestyle, but but instead see it
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as an opportunity to use the money that
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we generate to help others. And so we we
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decided each year we would give away 50%
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of our profit. And we made these
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decisions before we became partners,
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before we went into business together.
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And I'm so thankful we did because um it
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really helped us focus on business and
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and not get caught up in some of the
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headaches. My brother and I have been
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partners now for 39 years and we've
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never argued about money. My wife and I
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have been married almost 40 years and
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we've never argued about money. And and
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it's one of those things that sometimes
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rips families apart. Um and particularly
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when a company makes a lot of money. I
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think sometimes too much money is more
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detrimental sometimes than not enough.
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And so we're so thankful that we heard
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those warnings and we put some
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safeguards in our life to protect us
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against some of the dangers of weather.
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Wow. I I've I've heard you talk about
Profit: Half to Grow and Half to Ministry
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early on you used half the profit to
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grow the business and half to give to
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ministry. Is that still a little bit of
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how it works? Yeah, we're still doing
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just the same. Yeah. And the scale of
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Barnhart is Barnhart's worth hundreds of
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millions of dollars if if not more. and
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you've been able to give away a lot of
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money. Uh I know it didn't start with a
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lot. It might have seemed like a lot and
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now it's a significant amount. Talk
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about that journey of seeing uh a little
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bit start to go and just being committed
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and how it's grown over time. Sure. I
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mean, when we committed the company to
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God and said, "God, basically, you own
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it." Um we we didn't know if the company
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would even survive the first year. I
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mean, it was a mom and pop business. Mom
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and pop left. I mean, really left. and
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and I was a 25 year old kid, but but
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just in case, we made that commitment.
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The first year we actually made money
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and we had I think
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$50,000 we were able to send out to
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organ to some organizations and and so
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we did that and then the next year the
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company grew and the next year the
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company grew. So it it grew about 25% a
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year for 23 straight years and uh and
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became a you know kind of a medium-sized
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company by about by 2008. And when you
Deciding Where The Money Goes
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think about all that you've been able to
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get involved in, how do you choose what
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to get involved in on the generosity
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side and I know you've got now a large
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amount of people involved in that
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process that you brought along with you.
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Yeah, we decided we'd make those
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decisions about where the money goes as
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a group. Started out as a group of six
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of us. Um, as we as the money increased
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and as the company grew, we more people
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uh joined us. These are all employees or
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spouses. Um, and so we we decided we
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wanted to fund things that were hard to
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fund. There's lots of great things to
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fund. And basically, everybody
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ignores 99% of the need out there. I
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mean, you can't you can't do everything.
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So, you got to figure out what it is you
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want to do. We decided we wanted to to
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fund work in hard places in the world
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where there's the most poverty, the the
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the church was the least um established.
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And so the the Muslim world, the Hindu
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world, the Buddhist world, um there's
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massive poverty, mass all kinds of needs
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there. And we focused on those areas and
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uh and and so that's that's been our our
8:30
focus and continues to be. Now we can we
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we also fund ministries in every city
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where we have an operation. We're in
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about 60 cities. Um, so we do things
8:40
there as well, but the but the large
8:43
dollars, you know, God has brought in so
8:45
much money that uh the large dollars end
8:47
up going to these international needs in
8:50
a more strategic way. That group is now
8:53
about 60 of us that try to figure out
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how to invest this money um in
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ministries that are changing people's
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lives around the world. Wow. One of the
The Joy of Giving
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things I I love and that I've just
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learned from you over time is the joy in
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giving. Uh, a lot of people have this um
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strange relationship with giving, I'd
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say, where giving is sacrificial, but
9:18
they don't love to do it, but they know
9:19
they should, and it's just this sticky
9:22
relationship with giving. Talk about
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what how you found joy in giving and how
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you encourage others who are trying to
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figure that out. Yeah. I mean, what I
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would say is we've we've never given
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anything that God didn't give to us.
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We're just trying to be a I don't even
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think what we're doing is sacrificial
9:39
giving. I mean, we we have a good
9:41
lifestyle and we're giving away the
9:44
surplus and um but but we we don't we
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don't see it as sacrificial. We see it
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as a a a joy to be able to be part of
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the work of amazing people who are doing
9:56
hard things in hard places. stuff I
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wouldn't want to have to go do. And
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these guys are doing it uh year in and
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year out and we get to be part of what
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they're doing by providing funding to
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them. And and that's an honor and it's a
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it's a joy to be part of. Um God's
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letting us in on it. And so um uh as we
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have given, more money has come in and
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uh the process has gotten bigger and
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bigger. It's a job now. It's a lot of
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work to figure out how to give away
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money. And you can do more harm than
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good by giving people money. And so
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there's there's some danger in it.
10:30
There's some adventure in it. There's
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some uh uh skill to it. You got to learn
10:34
some things. We've read a lot of books
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and try to figure out how to do it. But
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um it uh this it's it's mostly a great
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adventure. Have you ever wavered in your
Second Thoughts?
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thinking about was this the right
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decision?
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Uh not at all. I I mean not not even
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slightly. It it uh we later in 2008 we
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we transferred the stock of our company
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out of we my brother and I each owned
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half the stock and we we transferred
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that to a charity u which had some great
11:05
advantages from a um succession planning
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element u estate tax element um even
11:14
income tax element. There's lots of
11:15
benefits in doing that. Um, and people
11:19
ask, "Do do you do you have second
11:21
thoughts about doing that?" Because you
11:22
took this company that was worth
11:23
hundreds of millions of dollars and you
11:25
you gave it away. Um, and and what I say
11:29
is we really didn't give it away. We
11:30
really gave it away before we started
11:32
it. We really told God it was his before
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we started it. Um, and the second thing
11:36
is we didn't really give it away. We
11:38
transferred the stock. So, we don't own
11:39
it anymore, but we still own it from a
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from a uh we still feel it's like our
11:46
stewardship, our responsibility. So, the
11:48
company is about four times as big as it
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was when we gave it away in 2008. So,
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it's not like we're sitting back saying,
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"Well, it's not mine anymore, so we're
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not interested." But, you know, we're
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we're we're continuing to push hard to
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to be the best company in our industry,
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to be great at what we do. Um, so that's
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been all part of the journey.
Reactions to Alan's Lifestyle
12:08
One of the things I I know that you do
12:09
is go around the country and around the
12:12
world talking about a little of your
12:13
story of how uh you're stewards of the
12:16
business and how you decided to just
12:18
give it back to God uh what was his and
12:21
and it's interesting because in that
12:23
process you also talk a little bit about
12:25
how you've kept your lifestyle and I
12:28
would imagine that a lot of the
12:29
audiences you speak to of successful
12:32
business CEOs who run large scale
12:34
companies um that probably doesn't go
12:37
over well. How do you hear how do you
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hear that being received? Talking about
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capping your lifestyle and giving away
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so much money and encouraging others and
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bring them bringing them in with you.
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You know, I think for a lot of people it
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does make sense. I mean, for some they
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they think it's crazy, but for if you
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believe what I believe about God, that
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that everything has come from God, we're
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just a conduit. God's giving us this
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this stuff and we're just trying to be a
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good conduit. If you believe that you're
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going to live forever and that your life
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on this earth is just a small part of
13:10
your total existence, if you believe
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that there is a good God, then um making
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some minor sacrifices is is not is is
13:20
not a big deal and and it's bad. It's
13:23
logical. It's um it's investing in the
13:25
future, I guess you would say. So, um,
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you know, some people really struggle
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with with lifestyle and think they need
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to have We live in such an opulent
13:35
society. It's it's it's amazing. But,
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you know, Jesus warned about
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money 2,000 years ago. He warned about
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money 10 times more than he warned about
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anything else. It was a big problem um
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and and a big trap for people 10 years a
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2,000 years ago. It's a big deal today.
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Um, and I I think my life has been
13:57
freer by putting constraints in my life.
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You would think putting constraints like
14:02
saying you're going to have a certain
14:04
lifestyle would would be put you in
14:06
bondage. To me, it's led to freedom. And
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I think living a life without
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constraints and basically doing whatever
14:13
you want to do tends to lead to bondage
14:16
and an emptiness. And so, you know,
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we're not created to be happy or
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satisfied with stuff.
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um that's not how we're built. And so
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people spend their whole life trying to
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accumulate and you know accumulate toys
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and and it really backfires. And so we
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just um got on the front end of that and
14:36
preempted that and are so thankful that
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we did it to it has led not to a life of
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of hardship and struggle and sacrifice
14:44
but a life of adventure and and fun and
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um so it's it's uh I you know the reason
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you know we went for 15 years our first
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15 years we didn't tell anybody what we
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were doing. There's a verse in the Bible
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that says don't let the left hand know
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what the right hand's doing. don't don't
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don't let other people see you giving.
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And and I think there's some validity to
15:07
that. Um there's also verses, you know,
15:09
a few verses before that, it says, "Let
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your light shine before men in such a
15:13
way that they see your good works and
15:15
glorify God." And so, um, some people
15:19
challenged us and said, you know, your
15:20
story is pretty amazing. God has done
15:22
something pretty wild in your business
15:25
and you have a stewardship of your story
15:28
also. You need to be willing to tell the
15:30
story. And so back in the you know
15:33
2007208 we started telling our story and
15:36
uh and I think it has set a lot of
15:38
people free. People have heard the
15:40
story. Some have rejected it and thought
15:43
that's that's crazy. Um but many have
15:46
embraced it and and found freedom in
15:49
this area. And so I that's that's what
15:51
keeps encouraging us. Some people have
15:54
never thought about it before and it's a
15:56
new concept but once they think about it
15:58
it does make sense. So, um, so that
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that's been that's why we're we're
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willing to come on a podcast like this
16:05
and tell our story. Several years ago,
16:07
we wouldn't have done that, but now
16:08
we're open to doing that. Well, it it's
Building The Servant Leadership Mentality Into The Team
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fascinating because you've modeled
16:13
servant leadership so well. Um, how do
16:17
you build into your team that same
16:19
mentality and what do they think of all
16:21
this, your executive team and key
16:23
leaders?
16:25
You know, I think it really helps that
16:27
my lifestyle is is less than or equal to
16:31
their lifestyle. Um, they're not seeing
16:34
their the fruits of their labor are not
16:36
going to to ramp up my lifestyle. So,
16:39
we're all on the same team. Um, we all
16:42
are owners in a
16:44
stewardship. You know, they they they
16:46
all are trying to make a great company
16:48
as as am I. Um but we all from a
16:52
financial standpoint have a similar uh
16:54
mindset. Now each one of those guys has
16:57
different um personal we pay market
16:59
wages to everybody and so uh many people
17:04
probably a hundred people at the company
17:05
make more money than I do. Um I I have
17:08
artificially limited my salary and we
17:10
don't do that for the rest of the guys.
17:12
But but a lot of people are um who
17:16
coming to our company because they want
17:18
to be at a company that's making a
17:20
difference and that has a a purpose that
17:22
matters. And so that uh that's been a
17:25
secret to us attracting good people and
17:27
having them stay for 25 years. Wow. it
The Magnitude of Money Given
17:31
and it must be cool for them to see the
17:33
growth of some of those people coming
17:35
for and being there for decades now
17:37
seeing the actual impact on the ground
17:40
that you're making not just in the
17:42
professional world but also in a lot of
17:44
the ministry stuff you've get involved
17:46
in um and answer this however you want
17:49
but when you think through how much
17:51
money you have been able to give away
17:54
how do you think about that in terms of
17:55
numbers
17:58
you know I mean I think I'd start off by
18:00
saying I don't think that God is
18:03
impressed with the magnitude of the
18:05
numbers. People are impressed by that.
18:08
But if you look in the Bible, the the
18:09
number one hall of fame giving story in
18:12
the Bible, Jesus was sitting at the
18:15
temple and watching people put in large
18:17
sums of money. And this lady came up, a
18:19
poor lady came up and put in two small
18:22
coins. And Jesus said, "Hey, stop. Look
18:26
at this. That is real giving." That's
18:28
the story that he pointed out as the the
18:31
Hall of Fame giving story. So God's not
18:33
impressed with the commas and the zeros.
18:35
He doesn't want our money. He wants us.
18:39
And and because he wants us though, he
18:41
wants us to hold our money with an open
18:43
hand. He said you can't serve God and
18:44
money. Um so you know the the uh we
18:49
started out gave $50,000. It got up to
18:52
where we were got up to a million
18:53
dollars a year we were able to send out.
18:55
We were amazed by that.
18:58
One of our guys who was a sales guy
19:00
said, "I think we ought to set a goal of
19:02
a million dollars a month." And we're
19:05
like, "Yeah, right." You know, it but
19:07
but almost immediately the industry
19:09
boomed. And we got to a place where we
19:11
were able to send out a million dollars
19:13
a month. And so we had to have more
19:15
people helping us figure out where that
19:16
money was going. And uh and since then,
19:19
the company has continued to grow. We've
19:21
added some other companies that have a
19:22
similar ownership structure. and we pull
19:24
our money and and so now the uh the
19:28
total going out um just from our group
19:31
is about $55 million last year and we're
19:34
amazed. I mean it's we never dreamed of
19:36
this kind of dollars flowing out. Um and
19:39
it's a lot of work to try to figure out
19:41
how to how to distribute that kind of
19:43
money. Um and it and we don't know what
19:46
the future holds. It may be more in the
19:48
future. So, and we're having others that
19:50
are coming and saying, "We'd like, you
19:52
know, I've made a lot of money, but I
19:54
don't know how to give it. Can you help
19:55
me figure out where to put that money?"
19:58
And so, now that's one of the things
20:00
that we're helping some people with. Um,
20:02
not on a, you know, just on a very
20:04
informal basis, but helping people try
20:06
to figure out um what to do if you if
20:10
you've got a lot of money.
20:12
It's absolutely amazing. And I I love
Alan's Thoughts About His Legacy
20:15
the the story you shared before that,
20:18
too. when when we think through the
20:20
company that you've built and companies
20:22
that you're involved in now, you're
20:24
really structuring them differently,
20:26
which might be how it was always
20:28
intended to be. Um, when you think
20:31
through legacy and the legacy you're
20:33
leaving, what comes to mind? You know,
20:36
I'm I'm not big on that word in
20:40
but I I think that I think stewardship
20:44
is the right posture for a person who is
20:48
a follower of Jesus. Everything we have
20:50
has come from God. Everything belongs to
20:52
God. And so I mean I just want to be um
20:56
I want to leave if you want to call it a
20:57
legacy but just a concept of that
21:00
stewardship is a great way to live life.
21:03
It's and and you know it it is true that
21:06
we serve a that we serve God and he is
21:09
he is God. I mean and he's worthy of our
21:11
total obedience even if it's really
21:13
really hard but he's also a loving
21:16
heavenly father who wants to give us a
21:18
rich abundant life and and that's what
21:21
we found. And so um you know I I want to
21:24
be um to leave a legacy of being a
21:28
reasonably good steward. I'm I'm not a
21:32
um I'm not some amazing guy. I'm not
21:34
super disciplined. If this had been
21:36
really really hard, I probably would
21:38
have bailed out, but it's not been it's
21:40
been a great life of adventure and
21:42
excitement and interesting and it's
21:44
hard. I mean, there's not this not that
21:46
not hard parts to it. Um anything that
21:49
you're doing that's substantial and if
21:51
you want to be the best in your
21:52
industry, you don't you don't coast up
21:54
to that point. You you got to keep
21:56
working hard. But all that's part of the
21:58
good stuff in life. So um yeah, I think
22:02
to have a legacy of work is a good
22:05
thing, stewardship is the right posture
22:08
and helping other people brings you joy
22:11
and fulfillment. When some of our
Communicating Stewardship to Others
22:14
audience are coming at this from a faith
22:16
standpoint, some are coming at this
22:18
without any faith at all. And thinking
22:21
through stewardship, uh that could mean
22:23
a lot of things to a lot of people. and
22:25
you've kind of explained what it means
22:26
to you and you've explained that really
22:28
well when you encourage other people to
22:31
think through stewardship in their own
22:33
lives. What's the starting point look
22:35
like to to recognize the fact that being
22:38
a steward, it means that it's not your
22:41
stuff. Now, that's a maybe that's a
22:44
foreign concept to someone that doesn't
22:46
believe in God, but the uh for a person
22:48
that does believe in God, everything
22:50
that you have is not yours. And you need
22:53
to um figure out what what the owner
22:56
wants you to do with it. Um the owner
22:58
being God. The um you know, even if even
23:02
if I didn't believe in God, I think
23:04
living a life that's centered on
23:07
others is a more full life than a life
23:10
centered on yourself. I I don't think
23:13
even if you don't believe in God, you're
23:15
still not created to be happy with a
23:17
bunch of stuff. It'll never fulfill you.
23:20
And contentment is a wonderful thing.
23:24
And and um greed is a is a choice tool
23:29
of our enemy to to mess us up way our
23:32
mess up our thinking, mess up our
23:35
perspective. And I think
23:37
generosity breaks the power of greed.
23:40
You rarely meet a generous person who's
23:43
not happy. Um and you rarely meet a
23:47
greedy person who is happy. And so even
23:50
if you don't even if it's totally self-s
23:53
serving, develop generosity in your life
23:56
because it will um it will help you have
23:59
a better life.
Involving Family In Generous Giving
24:01
Wow. I know your family is very
24:04
important to you and you've got a big
24:05
family. Um how did you bring in your
24:10
family into all of this? You know, our
24:13
family, we have six kids and they grew
24:15
up kind of as uh they had the benefit of
24:18
not growing up as rich kids. We, you
24:20
know, we had a relatively simple
24:22
lifestyle, which I think was beneficial
24:23
to them. We let them do things like pay
24:26
for half of their college, which some
24:28
people think of as child abuse, but we
24:30
thought of it as doing something for
24:31
them, not to them. Um, and and there
24:34
were a lot of things we didn't we had a
24:36
lot of fun as a family. We went camping
24:38
and we went to the beach and we just we
24:40
had a lot of fun. we did had special
24:42
treats. Um, but there was a lot of
24:46
things that we didn't do from a
24:48
lifestyle standpoint. And so sometimes
24:50
we did have to say no to our kids. Um,
24:53
but we also showed them the alternative
24:55
by taking them all over the world. my
24:56
kids. We didn't take the whole family to
24:58
Disney World, but we went to we went to
25:01
uh Vietnam and we went to India and we
25:04
went all across Africa and we went to
25:06
Turkey and to Egypt and to Israel and we
25:10
met amazing people who were changing
25:13
people's lives. And my kids got to meet
25:15
these people and see these ministries.
25:18
And um we had people around our dinner
25:20
table regularly talking about what was
25:22
going on around the world. And so my
25:25
kids don't feel ripped off by the
25:27
childhood they had. They had an
25:29
exciting, adventurous childhood. They
25:32
are equipped now with education and work
25:35
ethic and faith to to go on in life. We
25:40
don't plan to leave our kids a lot of
25:41
money because we don't think that that's
25:44
beneficial to them. Um, you know,
25:47
there's some people that say, "I want I
25:49
don't want my kids to have to go through
25:50
what I went through."
25:52
to which I would say, why not? I mean,
25:55
it made you who you are. We We want our
25:57
kids to struggle. That's one of the
25:58
gifts we have for them. Pain is one of
26:00
the gifts we want to let them
26:02
experience. And I think it helps them.
26:04
And we've sitting they're they're all
26:06
grown now. Five of them are married and
26:09
uh and they're all on their own and and
26:12
uh you know, so it's it's um my kids
26:16
don't feel like they got short changed
26:18
because we gave away the company. Some
26:20
people ask me that, you know, are your
26:21
kids pissed off that you gave away their
26:23
multi hundreds of millions of dollars of
26:26
inheritance? And uh there's been none of
26:28
that. We never felt like it was ours and
26:31
therefore they never felt like it was
26:33
theirs. And so, and I think expectation
26:36
management, particularly with kids, is
26:38
huge. With everybody, it's huge, but but
26:41
uh you know, my kids didn't expect that
26:44
they were going to be set for life
26:45
because, you know, because we were going
26:47
to take care of them. We we let them
26:49
know right away that they're going to
26:50
need to take care of themselves. Wow,
26:53
that's so cool. Well, I want to finish
10-Rapid-Fire Questions
26:55
with 10 rapid fire questions where you
26:58
just say the first thing that comes to
27:00
your mind. Great. Who's the first person
27:03
you think of when I say servant
27:05
leadership?
27:07
Jesus.
27:09
Five words that most describe you.
27:13
Adventurous. Uh
27:17
uh hard
27:19
worker.
27:21
Uh
27:24
fun.
27:26
Uh
27:27
thrifty. I'm a little My wife would say
27:30
cheap. Um and I'd say I'd say I'm a
27:33
leader. Love it. Favorite author or
27:36
book? Yeah, I've read all the Jim
27:38
Collins books. I love I love all the Jim
27:40
Collins books. Um great book called
27:42
Amazing Grace about the life of uh
27:45
William Wilberg Force. That to me was
27:49
really impressive book. Favorite movie.
27:52
Favorite movie. It's a wonderful life.
27:54
Favorite food? Favorite food? I'd say
27:56
barbecued ribs. Oh, and you have good
27:59
ribs in Texas, too. Or in uh Memphis. In
28:02
Memphis. Memphis. Yeah. Favorite thing
28:03
to do in your free time? Uh backpacking.
28:05
All right. What's a surprising fact
28:07
about you? You know, I've been to every
28:09
state and over 60 countries. How about
28:12
that? I've done a little traveling.
28:13
That's a lot. Okay. Where's your
28:15
favorite place you've been? I'd say
28:17
probably Israel. Is there anywhere you
28:19
want to go that you have not been
28:20
before? Yes. I want to go to New
28:22
Zealand. I've never been there. All
28:24
right. And finally, what's the best
28:26
advice you've ever gotten? I think to to
28:29
seriously
28:30
consider the claims of Jesus because to
28:34
me it answers all the key questions in
28:36
life about where we came from, where
28:38
we're
28:39
going, what our morality should be, what
28:42
our purpose is. So to be encouraged
28:46
to
28:48
to get to a conclusion on that, I think
28:51
was the best advice I've ever been
28:53
given. That's good. Well, Alan, thank
Closing
28:55
you so much for joining us on the
28:57
Servant Leadership Podcast. Oh, it's
28:59
been a it's been a treat. Thank you for
29:01
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