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Alec Hill

Episode: 46

Today on the Servant Leadership Podcast, we’re joined by Alec Hill — a leader well-known around the world for his deep commitment to servant leadership.

Alec spent 14 years as the president of InterVarsity Christian Fellowship, leading thousands of people across 150 countries. His career has spanned law, refugee work, academia, and publishing — all woven together by a desire to lead with integrity and purpose.

In this episode, Alec shares how a cancer diagnosis changed his perspective on life and how he’s found purpose in ‘bonus time.’

Whether you’re facing your own crisis or just want to lead with greater purpose, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss.

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Alec Hill's Intro

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Today on the servant leadership podcast,

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we're joined by Alec Hill, a leader well

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known around the world for his deep

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commitment to servant leadership. Alec

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spent 14 years as the president of

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Interarity Christian Fellowship, leading

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thousands of people across 150

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countries. His career has spanned law,

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refugee work, academia, and publishing,

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all woven together by a desire to lead

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with integrity and purpose. In this

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episode, Alec shares how a cancer

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diagnosis changed his perspective on

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life, and how he's found purpose in

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bonus time. Whether you're facing your

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own crisis or just want to lead with

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greater purpose, this conversation is

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one you won't want to miss.

Welcome Alec Hill

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Alec, thank you for joining us on the

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Servant Leadership Podcast.

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Great to be with you.

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When I first heard your story, uh, it

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had such an impact on me. And we'll get

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into why that was, but I'd love for you

Alec's Career Journey

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to share with our audience a little bit

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of your career path and how you what

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your career looked like because it was

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all over the place.

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Yeah, I'm a linear person, but it was

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not a linear life. Um yeah, I was a

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lawyer and um then I decided I didn't

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like that. So I got out and uh went into

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refugee resettlement with World Relief

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at age 27. Uh then became a professor.

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Um I taught business law and then became

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dean of a business school which is

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totally fraudulent because I'd never

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taken a management or finance course in

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my life. Um and then um became president

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of Interarsity Christian Fellowship USA

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for 14 years. Um so that's kind of the

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career path. I will say at 62 I got bone

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marrow cancer. I know we're going to

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talk about that. And then for the last

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10 years, it's hard to believe. I have

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been coaching, mentoring, and teaching.

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Wow. And your career path obviously is

"Just Business" - Christian Ethics

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just so interesting from law to

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education to business to

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ministry to writing to all kinds of

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stuff. But one of the things that I

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thought was interesting is somewhere

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along the line, you've written a couple

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books, but one of them was just

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business. and it kind of gets into how

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to navigate ethical challenges in the

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marketplace and why did you decide to

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write that book based on some of your

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experiences and and what was it about?

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Yeah, I was teaching uh we had an MBA

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program at Boeing and I was supposed to

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bring Christian ethics into these

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non-Christian basically engineers and um

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I had to do it and I couldn't find

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anything. A lot of the material I found

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was Sunday schoolish or amateur-ish. Uh

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this is back in the 90s so there there

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really wasn't much on the market. So I

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wrote it out of necessity and the fun

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thing was I tested the the each chapter

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out on my classes. So they would take

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out sort of the the gospel speak if it

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was too Christianes and you know they

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would kind of polish the stone and it

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got down to so now it's in its third I'm

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writing actually writing the fourth

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edition. It continues to sell and be

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used number of campuses. So that has

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been a surprise in my life that that has

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gone so well. So along the way you wrote

"Living In Bonus Time" - Surviving Cancer and Finding New Purpose

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a second book and this is really the

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book that I really en I like both but I

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really enjoyed the second one. Uh

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talking about living in bonus time. Talk

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about how this even came to be and what

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the journey was like to write your

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second book.

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So in April of 2015 I fainted um and I

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blew it off and I didn't tell my wife

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and a friend who was at me at breakfast

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he said if you don't tell her I will. So

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I went home and that led to a series of

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tests and um it turned out to be

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myodisplacia syndrome which is a form of

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bone marrow cancer. So it was

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devastating news and I was failing fast.

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Uh I had a second test done in Seattle.

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I was we were living in Wisconsin at the

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time. Um and it looked really bleak. It

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felt like a death sentence. So um uh

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they put me in a high-risisk category

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and high-risisk cancer. So, uh, the only

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possible uh solution was a bone marrow

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transplant. Uh, my second my my I had

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two older brothers. The middle one was a

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perfect match on all four counts. Um,

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obviously it went well. I'm here. Uh,

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I'm an outlier through no merit. I

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remember telling asking the doctor, I

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said, "Well, did I survive because I'm

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fit and because I'm this?" And they

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said, "No, it's because your brother was

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a perfect match, stupid. Shut up and

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don't take credit for it." Um, you know,

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in a divine sense. So, so the title of

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the book is living in bonus time which

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is basically borrowing a soccer metaphor

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of stoppage time and you play in the 90

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minutes in soccer football as they say

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globally and then you you stop and then

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you play this extra period of time you

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know when it starts you don't know when

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it ends. So my life is like that

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regulation time ended in 2015 and bonus

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time started then and um you know I'm

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not going to live as long as I probably

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would because the treatments are pretty

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harsh. So, I'm 72. Uh, I have a body

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probably of a five to 10 years older

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than that person is what they've told

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me. Um, I've had two new hips and a new

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knee. And I mean, there's just all this

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kind of stuff. But I'm here enjoying

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grandchildren and life and uh very

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thankful.

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Wow. it such an intense period of time

Encouraging People Who Are Going Through Trauma

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for you and probably a lot of I'm

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guessing fear and doubts and the book

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really talks about how you navigated

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that to find completely new purpose. uh

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when you deal with people all the time

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who've read the book or who at different

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speaking events that you do around the

5:24
world and and you talk about this

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journey, how do you encourage people

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when they're at rock bottom or just in a

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pit with no end in sight?

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Two ways. Um the first is there's a

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science called post-traumatic growth

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which I had never heard of which says

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that that those of us who go through

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trauma whether it's bankruptcy or

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divorce or death of a child or a cancer

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or an accident whatever it is um

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twothirds of us actually say three years

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later that we are better people for it.

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We're stronger for it. We're more

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resilient. We're bolder. So you know you

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always hear about PTSD which is the

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downside. You never hear about this

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growth. And so that was a real shock to

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me when I was researching for the book.

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I thought I'm experiencing some sort of

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incredible internal growth through this.

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And I have never I was surprised. I

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thought I was an anomaly. Turns out I I

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fit in the majority. I think the other

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is you just gain a perspective on

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eternity on life. Um and you you live

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with a greater purpose and drive. And um

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I think I read that um one out of four

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Americans say they have a real they know

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their purpose at life. Three out of four

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cancer survivors answer that

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affirmatively. So there's a sharpening a

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clarity of why why I'm here and what I

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do.

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Wow.

Writing A Book - Intimidating?

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In in your writing experiences, one of

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the things that if people look at your

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background, they start to realize is you

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ran a major uh publishing organization.

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And so here you are writing books and

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some people might expect you to write

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books because yeah well this is what you

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run for a living but at the same time

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was that intimidating to get into book

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writing knowing all the great authors

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and books that you've been involved in?

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Well just to just to be clear soars is a

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large 110 $120 million organization.

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Inter Press is about a$20 million part

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of it. So it's a subset. So I I wasn't

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the publisher of of Interroars Press. I

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was the president over but I I was

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involved. We but I wasn't I want to give

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Bob Frying who was the publisher credit

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due. Um but yeah it was it's a little

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intimidating when you're when you're

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floating in circles with you know um

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Eugene Peterson and Andy Crouch who's

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been on your show and other people like

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that who publish with University Press.

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So uh I will say it it it um it's a

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wonderful crowd to run with.

Background Behind Writing Books

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Did it make it easier or harder that

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that was one of the divisions of what

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you're doing and and getting to work

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with your team on publishing a book?

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You know, I some people are born authors

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and they live to write. That's what they

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I'm not that. I'm an activist. I'm a I'm

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a leader. Uh I like to do things. So

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with the ethics book and the cancer

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book, I wrote it out of necessity. There

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was something inside of me that said I

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had to do this. I think with the cancer

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book, it was to make sense of the

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craziness of it. it was to redeem

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somehow um and to I I I think it was to

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repurpose the pain. So, uh the cancer

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book was kind of unique. Um I didn't

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think at age 60, what was I 64, 65 I'd

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be writing another book. I thought I'd

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done I thought I was a one and done sort

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of author and one hit wonder if you

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will. Uh and then I the second book came

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out. I don't have a third book in mind.

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So,

Biggest Takeaways From "Bonus Time"

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when people hear your story and you're

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going around the world and speaking and

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talking and doing things like this, uh,

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you've become an inspiration to so many

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people, what do you hope the biggest

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takeaways are when people read the book

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and really are thinking about the bonus

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time in their life or how to get out of

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just a bad season? What do you hope

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those big takeaways are? Well, first of

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all, let me say some people don't get

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well, some people die, some people have

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chronic pain, and for them, I just feel

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a real sense of of of pain and loss and

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and and struggle. So, I just want to

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acknowledge that group of people. And

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for those who are caregivers and the

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life who have lost people, I'm really

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sad and sorry for that. But for those of

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us who survive

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and who aren't in chronic pain, there is

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this wonderfully weird special period of

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life that is unlike any other. Uh I

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mentioned sharpened focus. Um, I

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mentioned there there's this odd

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combination, uh, Chris, of of being at

9:45
peace and at ease and slowing things

9:47
down, but there's also this sense of

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intensity that you want to live life

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more purposefully and more directly. And

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so, um, I I know it's not going to last

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forever. I know my body, uh, will

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eventually catch up with me, uh, not

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only with aging. I've got two lines. I

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got this aging line, which I'm getting

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older, but then I also have the cancer

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line. The cancer is gone, but the

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effects of the cancer. So,

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um, you know, you can either react two

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ways to that. Either is, oh, dread. Oh,

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in two or five or 10 years, I'm going to

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be X. Or you can go, I've got two or

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five or 10 years I didn't think I had.

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So, I think part of it is a sense of

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perspective. Um, you know, one of the

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pieces that surprised me a little bit

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was um one of the early chapters is is

God's Presence On Dark Days

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the Lord's presence on dark days. And um

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I had assumed that when people go into

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these dark times, they feel abandoned.

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And some do um and some feel I did not I

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felt God's presence in a really unique

10:41
and powerful way in my life. I mean

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powerfully that so much that I thought

10:45
it was only going to last for a short

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while that it'd be a little grace. It is

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continued in a very special way ever

10:51
since. So that that has so when I think

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about dying I think about heaven. Um I

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look forward to it. I mean I I I I don't

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want to leave my grandchildren and my

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children, my wife. I don't want to. But

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I really look forward to to life being

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extended beyond this. So that's that's a

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hope that I have.

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Wow.

Trauma's Affect On Servant Leadership

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On on this podcast, we talk a lot about

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servant leadership and obviously what

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you just shared about your outlook on

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life. How do you think servant

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leadership plays into how you lead now

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maybe differently than how you led

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before?

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I died. Um my my ego well I can't say my

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ego died. I still have a, you know, um,

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but but when you die, when you face your

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own mortality, you realize how kind of

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small you are and yet you also realize

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how important you are to play the role

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that you're you're given. So I think

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it's made me more of a servant. So I was

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a type A executive leader who now

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mentors 20 people a month um, and

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invests in their lives. Most of them are

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30, 40 or 50 years old, younger than me

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obviously. And um I get great joy. I

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mean absolute amazing joy out of being a

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partner with them walking on their

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journey. So um if anything I've shifted

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from this this sort of primary alpha

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leader to this support person and I'm s

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I'm stunned that I love it. I I never

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thought that I'd be this pastoral.

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um it wasn't re it was kind of there but

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it was really underdeveloped and now

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it's primary to what I do.

Leading InterVarsity Christian Fellowship

12:28
Obviously we alluded to Inner Varity's

12:32
publishing arm a little bit. Intervarity

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did a lot more than that as you alluded

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to as well uh than just publishing. Talk

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about what it was like to lead such a

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massive organization that had influence

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all around the world.

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So this is interesting. And so I went

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from a university where I had 35 faculty

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and staff to a a nonprofit with a

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thousand staff that went up to 1,600

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staff. Um I was 48 years old. I was way

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over my head. I made lots of mistakes.

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And it's amazing I survived the first

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five years because it was all on the job

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training. I hadn't been a vice

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president. I'd just been a dean. I mean

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know. So it was a two-step jump. And we

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moved from Seattle to Madison,

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Wisconsin. Um it was the grace of God.

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Um my wife was the other component I

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think who just sort of made me sane and

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it kept me going. Uh I'd say the last

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half of that tenure was really fruitful

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and pretty wonderful. But um I my one

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piece of advice here is don't skip a

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level. You know I skipped a level and I

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paid for it. The organization paid for

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it. Um we survived it. Um but yeah,

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university um largely does campus

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ministry. So we have chapters on oh I

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don't know a thousand chapters I I don't

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know what the numbers are today uh on

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campuses around the United States and

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these are um usually staffed sometimes

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with volunteers uh and they work with

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college students um to provide a a place

13:59
for Christian students but also outreach

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to those who are seeking faith.

Impact Of Crisis On Servant Leadership

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You talk about skipping a level and that

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being really difficult uh and causing

14:08
some problems. How do you think people

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become a better servant leader

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throughout times of crisis and really

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prepare themselves for times of crisis

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and areas where they might not be

14:17
equipped to lead in?

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I don't think you prepare for crisis. I

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think they find you and and they find us

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all because we live in in this world

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that's not perfect. So I think it's how

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we react to crisis. Um and um you know

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we can we can react with dow sort of

14:35
negative or put a fence around

14:37
ourselves. Um or we can try to find gold

14:40
in the manure. I wrote this in an

14:42
article once said that you know if you

14:44
flush your your wedding ring down the

14:46
toilet you go for it even though there's

14:48
stuff there you don't want to do. So

14:49
with with senior leadership, when you

14:51
have a crisis, you can bail, you can you

14:54
can freeze, you can protect, or you can

14:57
continue to walk out and getting shot

14:59
at. And and you know, the world is so

15:02
much more polarized now than it was 10

15:03
years ago. I I would I I really feel for

15:06
nonprofit leaders right now. It's it's

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it's incre it's incredibly hard to do

15:11
well. Um but but if we if we can have a

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close circle of people who we trust who

15:16
hold us accountable and love us um we

15:18
can move through these crises and

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believe me there's one crisis after

15:22
another in senior leadership. I mean it

15:24
it never really ends. Um and so I I

15:27
really admire people who who walk that

15:29
journey. I also know this that if you

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faithfully walk through those crises and

15:33
if you act well, you become a much

15:36
better and well-developed human being.

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And um I'd like to think that's what

15:41
happened with me. Um yeah, I think I'm a

15:44
better human being now than I was before

15:46
the crisis. Before even before the

15:47
cancer, there were there were series of

15:49
crises that that that that put scars um

15:52
but also shaped and formed.

Growing Through Organizational Crisis

15:55
On the work front, are there any that

15:57
stand out that you feel like, boy, that

15:59
was just a really hard season, whether

16:02
it be a mistake or just a hard

16:04
leadership season that turned you into a

16:06
better servant leader moving forward?

16:09
Yeah, without going into details, it was

16:11
about 2005, which is now 20 years ago.

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It's hard to believe, but I still

16:15
remember it really well. And things just

16:17
blew up and uh I did not handle the

16:20
crisis particularly well, um to say the

16:23
least. Um I was inexperienced. Um and so

16:28
um the sad thing is there's collateral

16:30
damage in terms of people's lives and

16:32
and other people who were and so it's

16:34
not really my story, it's other people.

16:36
Um I would say for me

16:39
very humbling. Um my reputation was my

16:42
idol up to that point and my reputation

16:45
got kind of shot and I had to learn to

16:48
um be true to God's calling in my life

16:53
um to be to express um sadness and

16:57
sorrow and and to talk and and be

16:59
vulnerable. Um and I think through that

17:01
that went on for a couple years. It was

17:03
a very long hard journey. Um, and um, I

17:08
I almost hate to talk about myself

17:10
because again, I'm more concerned about

17:11
the other people who who were hurt in

17:13
this process. Um, but I um, I learned

17:19
um, I licked my wounds. I kept walking

17:21
towards what I consider to be the sun. I

17:23
continue to try to do the right things.

17:26
Um, and I did become a better person.

17:30
Um, but I wouldn't recommend it. It's

17:32
like cancer. I'm a better person for the

17:34
cancer, but I wouldn't wish it on

17:35
anyone.

17:36
Right. I I've heard from now multiple

Balancing Vision Casting and Caring For People

17:39
people who know you well personally and

17:42
have worked with you over the years that

17:45
you

17:45
Oh, really? You have a dossier on me.

17:48
Well, well, I I've heard that they've

17:51
said you're a great vision cer, but you

17:53
set really clear and concrete goals, but

17:55
one of the things that you did uniquely

17:57
was cared for people well. And one of

17:59
the things that maybe I wonder in that

18:02
journey um and and I'm just curious how

18:06
people can balance the tension of like

18:09
hard charging big goals, God-sized

18:12
visions with caring for people and

18:14
actually lifting people up with them.

18:15
How did you balance all that tension and

18:17
deal with that?

18:19
Pretentiousness is a real sin. And I uh

18:22
I'm an anagram three if you if you know

18:24
what that means. And I like to achieve

18:25
and do things. Um, and it's one of my

18:28
besetting sins is is is accolades and

18:31
applause. And when the clapping stopped

18:34
and I was viewed appropriately in some

18:36
in many ways with skepticism,

18:39
um, I I had to re the plane had to be

18:44
rebuilt in in mid-flight, you know, and

18:46
I had to have a different set of rooting

18:48
core identity identity, you you know. So

18:52
I think you know it's interesting you

18:53
you let me take a little bit of a

18:55
tangent here but I think this issue of

18:57
identity is key. So as a senior leader

18:59
what we a lot of us start out with is

19:02
that we we love we're golden child ch we

19:04
we we we achieve we get we we get

19:07
applause and when that doesn't happen

19:09
and our identity in that phase is all

19:12
built around those achievements and the

19:14
applause. But when when those two things

19:16
stop, when it's not going well in the in

19:18
the business or the ministry in my case,

19:21
uh and you aren't getting the applause,

19:22
you have to re readjust your identity

19:25
completely. So I u that's what happened

19:27
to me over a period of years. My

19:29
identity got rrooted in something much

19:31
more solid than where I had been.

Maintaining Your Identity

19:35
Wow. for people listening. Uh obviously

19:38
our identity can get caught up in our

19:40
work, in the things we're doing, in our

19:42
families, in whatever. It could be

19:44
really good things that that our

19:46
identities were putting our identities

19:48
into.

19:49
How do you balance that? And what does

19:51
that look like to not keep your identity

19:53
in what you do, but in

19:55
in something else? And what is that

19:57
something else?

19:59
Well, you know, for me, it's my it's my

20:01
faith and um and God is very good to me.

20:05
Um I I feel like I'm a child of God

20:08
first and foremost. Um and that protects

20:12
me more now. U but you know I was a

20:15
child of God before when I was when I

20:17
was an achieving kind of accolade

20:19
person. So um I think it's back to the

20:22
crisis conversation we had. Um crisis

20:25
crises open our eyes. they they strip

20:27
away the blindness and they show us, oh,

20:30
I had an appearance of control that I

20:32
really controlled things or that I was

20:34
really um the the the X factor in making

20:37
this happen. And and when you get

20:39
cancer, all of that stripped away

20:41
because you have no control and you

20:43
realize that you and I think the

20:45
arrogance that I've had my whole life of

20:47
I control more than I do. Now, on the

20:49
positive side, that makes me um uh get

20:52
things done. It moves the ball along.

20:54
I'm an agent. I have agency. But on the

20:57
negative side, I become a mini god. I I

21:00
I I'm a bit messianic in my own how I

21:03
help people and how that has been

21:05
stripped away largely. And I and I think

21:08
where and again at age 72, I like where

21:10
I am now. And I look back and kind of

21:13
shudder at my arrogance and my innocence

21:16
um my presumptuousness that I that I

21:21
displayed most of my life. So now you've

Transition To Mentoring

21:23
transitioned into helping mentor so many

21:26
other young leaders. Uh how do you

21:29
identify who to help in their next

21:32
servant leadership journey and then what

21:34
are you actually walking them through

21:36
and helping them with?

21:37
So in terms of the identification piece

21:39
um I don't recruit. Um so I started with

21:43
I had a year of isolation followed the

21:45
bone marrow transplant and I had 15

21:46
intervarity staff who uh some of whom

21:49
were stay still with me uh on a monthly

21:52
call basis and then other people have

21:54
just drifted in. Uh I teach at regent

21:56
college in Canada for example I have a

21:57
number of former students there. Um I

22:00
work with a foundation in Portland area

22:02
called Murdoch Trust. I have a number of

22:03
mentees who come through those programs.

22:06
Um so I don't I don't have a website. I

22:09
don't recruit. Um and and it's been

22:12
ample in terms of and I'm I'm I'm just

22:15
surprised and it's wonderful that people

22:17
want to chat. Um I think what motivates

22:21
a 45year-old leader to want to talk to

22:24
someone my age and stage is there's a

22:26
loneliness in the job which I I resonate

22:29
with. I spend a lot of time saying

22:30
you're not crazy. What you're

22:32
experiencing, how you're feeling is

22:34
understandable. Um, I think when people

22:37
go through transitions or crises, they

22:40
need someone to tell them they're okay.

22:43
And so, um, I do a lot of of that. Um,

22:46
transitions is a big word. It seems like

22:49
most of my mentees over a period of two

22:51
or three years are going through a major

22:53
transition of one sort or another. So,

22:55
I'm kind of become a transition coach. I

22:56
I wouldn't call it I didn't know that

22:58
was a skill set, but it is. and and

23:00
walking people through and calming them

23:03
down, um looking at their options, um

23:06
praying with them. I do a lot of that.

Encouraging Potential In Others

23:10
I'd be curious when when you're working

23:12
with these people, you probably see

23:14
certain potential in them that they

23:16
might or might not see in themselves.

23:18
Are you seeing more potential in people

23:20
or are you often having to help people

23:23
see their blind spots and really point

23:25
out big areas of weaknesses as you're

23:27
working with all these very capable and

23:29
go-getter type leaders?

23:31
I'm a chronic optimist and so I tend to

23:33
be the former. I tend to see the upsides

23:36
of people and um I I'm not a major

23:40
confr. I mean, if if they say something

23:42
stupid, I'll I'll point it out, but 90%

23:45
of the time, it's mostly um you're

23:47
underestimating, you're undershooting,

23:49
you're you're being too hard on

23:51
yourself. Um be patient. And so, it's

23:54
it's more encouragement. Um you know,

23:57
it's kind of analogous when I was dean

23:59
of the business school. Um you had ten

24:02
untenured faculty members and they're

24:03
all trying to get tenured. Well, we

24:06
divided. We had a guy who was on the

24:08
tenure committee and we made him just

24:09
being developmental. So, he did not he

24:11
did not sit on the evaluation committee.

24:14
So, Ian was his name and Ian just

24:15
coached these people. They loved Ian.

24:17
Well, at this age and stage in my life,

24:19
I'm all development and no evaluation.

24:22
And it is absolutely delightful.

24:26
Oh, golly. So, I'm I'm their I'm their

24:28
best friend and their biggest supporter.

24:29
I know you're partnering with people

Ethics In Leadership

24:31
one-on-one, but you're also doing a lot

24:33
with universities still to this day,

24:35
partnering and showing up and doing

24:37
part-time stuff with the stuff that you

24:40
try to teach people. A lot of it, I

24:42
know, revolves around leadership and

24:44
ethics and things like that. From your

24:46
journey, where do you see ethics play in

24:49
in terms of these tough circumstances

24:52
people deal with and then having to

24:54
actually be a great servant leader and

24:56
step beyond ethical issues that are very

24:59
tempting or just things that they

25:01
shouldn't have gotten into.

25:03
What's amazing to me is there are a lot

25:05
of leaders who don't have an ethical

25:07
grid. they have they have random verses

25:10
or addages from Socrates or Jesus they

25:12
that they bring in but they're kind of

25:15
oneoffs and um just a a brief thing on

25:18
my book. So the the basic idea of the

25:20
the ethics book is that um Christian

25:22
ethics is based on the character of God

25:24
and God is holy, God is just and God is

25:28
loving. And so the the book then for 300

25:31
pages goes on and and applies those to

25:34
various aspects of employee employee

25:36
relationships the environment and says

25:37
you know that we have to do things that

25:39
have integrity holiness we have to do

25:41
things that are just and that justice is

25:42
a very complex subject and we have to do

25:44
things that are loving and it's not one

25:46
of the three or two of the three all

25:47
three have to line up. I when I wrote

25:50
the book I I didn't realize that it

25:52
would sort of set my own direction of

25:55
what how I how I deal with ethics. So

25:57
whether it's a personal finance issue or

25:59
whatever, I I I use those three lenses.

Ten Rapid-Fire Questions

26:03
So Alec, you've given so much good

26:06
insight to our audience and shared a lot

26:08
of your journey. I want to throw 10

26:10
rapidfire questions at you where you

26:12
just say the first thing that comes to

26:14
mind for the last minute. Who's the

26:16
first person you think of when I say

26:18
servant leadership?

26:20
Jimmy Carter, postpresident.

26:22
Five words that most describe you.

26:24
Intense. Uh, charming, needy, pious. I

26:30
hope that's four. Was that enough?

26:33
No, that's good. Favorite book or movie?

26:35
Ordinary Grace is a novel uh that people

26:38
can look up on Amazon. Uh, it's

26:40
brilliantly written. Um, lovely book.

26:43
Yeah. Favorite movie is a good one. I'd

26:45
have to think more about that.

26:46
Favorite food?

26:48
Thai food.

26:50
Favorite thing to do in your free time?

26:51
Oh, well, there's two. Uh, camping and

26:54
going to a Saddle Mariner game.

26:56
Nice.

26:56
Which is painful. Camping is more

26:58
enjoyable. Camping is more enjoyable.

27:01
Lately, for sure. Surprising fact about

27:04
you.

27:04
Went to high school with Bill Gates.

27:06
Wow.

27:07
Paul Allen was in my class. There were

27:09
only 16 guys. It was an allmale school.

27:11
So that's that's a very unique fact of

27:14
my life.

27:16
Wow. Favorite place you've been?

27:18
Ethiopia.

27:19
All right. Where's somewhere you want to

27:20
go that you have not been?

27:22
Yeah, that is a great question. Um,

27:26
probably Turkey. I've been to Turkey.

27:28
What am I talking about? There are parts

27:29
of Turkey I'd like to go to. I'll put it

27:30
that way. Yeah, I've been to I've been

27:32
to an I've been to the capital, but

27:35
well, any I'd like to see more of the

27:36
country.

27:37
Best advice you've ever received?

27:40
Oh, well, that's a that's a quick

27:42
answer, isn't it?

27:45
Don't be a train that runs over people.

27:47
Be a train that carries people.

27:50
Wow, that's good. Well, thank you, Alec,

Closing

27:52
for being willing to share some of your

27:54
journey and your is wisdom and insights

27:56
with our audience. And uh I'm just

27:59
really thankful for you.

28:00
Well, Chris, thank you. And it's good to

28:02
reconnect after what at least a decade

28:05
uh when we saw each other or whatever

28:07
how many years it's been. So,

28:08
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